…Many times, we observe a married couple… or really people in any kind of relationship, and because as human beings we like to second-guess people and pre-empt their reactions to issues and prescribe how they may or may not feel about things happening around or to them, we engage in transference. We collect all the variables and then based on our own worldview or experience or expectations or convictions, we decide how they are supposed to feel and react…

So you hear things like, “He cheated on you? Leave him this instant, He did not pay your children’s fees? Cut off his penis” etc etc.

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